Several years ago, scammers required time, effort, and a certain level of expertise to deceive someone into giving them money.
Nowadays, all they need is software. Thanks to widely available AI tools, attackers can replicate a voice, create a convincing video, and establish a believable identity within minutes. What used to demand coordination and skill can now be done on a large scale, often by a single individual.
This shift is altering the demographics of who is most frequently targeted. There is a growing trend of older adults falling victim to this new wave of fraud, and the problem is escalating faster than many people realize.
The Impact of Fraud: Billions Lost
The statistics are staggering. Individuals aged 60 and above in the United States suffered an estimated loss of $81 billion to fraud in just one year. This figure likely underestimates the true extent of the issue, as many cases go unreported due to victims feeling ashamed or uncertain about where to seek help.
Moreover, the nature of these fraudulent activities is rapidly evolving. AI-enabled fraud has surged by over 400% within a span of two years (2023-2025), as per recent industry analysis. This growth is fueled by advancements in voice cloning, deepfake video technology, and AI-generated impersonation.
The Impact of a Single Phone Call
To comprehend the danger posed by this threat, it is helpful to examine what a typical attack feels like in reality.
For instance, two years ago, Gary Schildhorn received a distressing phone call that sounded exactly like his son. The caller claimed to have been in an accident and urgently needed money for bail. Gary was about to transfer thousands of dollars when he decided to verify the story by calling his son directly. It turned out his son was safe at home, unaware of any such call.
The imposter’s voice had been replicated using AI technology. Gary managed to avoid falling victim by taking a moment to verify the information through a separate channel. This incident underscores how convincing these attacks have become. They are not sloppy scams with obvious red flags; rather, they sound personal, urgent, and authentic, making them highly effective.
Why Older Adults are Prime Targets
There is a common belief that scams succeed due to individuals making careless mistakes.
However, this perspective misses the mark. Modern scams are designed to bypass normal decision-making processes by leveraging urgency, emotional manipulation, and familiarity. Older adults are often more susceptible to answering unknown calls and engaging in conversations. Many have accumulated savings over a lifetime, making them appealing targets. Additionally, they may not be accustomed to anticipating AI-generated deception that can replicate the voice of a loved one or trusted authority figure.
Attackers capitalize on these vulnerabilities by creating scenarios that feel deeply personal. Whether it’s a grandchild in distress, a suspicious activity alert from a bank, a demand for immediate action from a police officer, or a gradual trust-building process with a new romantic partner, the goal is to establish a sense of normalcy that makes the fraud seem authentic.
Transition from Obvious Scams to Believable Narratives
Traditional scams often revealed themselves through poor grammar, strange requests, or suspicious email addresses.
AI technology is eliminating many of these tell-tale signs. Today’s scammers can clone voices from brief audio samples, craft highly persuasive messages, and impersonate family members, financial institutions, or government officials with alarming accuracy. The success of these attacks lies in the credibility and authenticity of the narrative. They feel personal, urgent, and familiar, making them highly effective.
This shift is significant, with scams now involving scenarios such as a distressed family member calling for help, a government official demanding immediate payment, a long-drawn romance scam, or coordinated impersonation across various communication channels.
Even informed individuals can fall prey to these scams because the interactions are meticulously staged to feel genuine from the outset.
Beyond Financial Loss: The Emotional Impact
The repercussions of fraud extend beyond monetary losses. Victims often experience shame, anxiety, and a lasting blow to their confidence in making decisions. Some develop a distrust of conventional forms of communication, while others withdraw socially upon realizing how convincingly they were manipulated.
Furthermore, these incidents have lasting effects on families, straining relationships and leaving loved ones to navigate the emotional stress and financial fallout.
The Significance of Education in Combatting AI Scams
There is no foolproof solution to thwart every AI scam. Technology will continue to advance, detection systems will improve, but some scams will inevitably slip through the cracks. Additionally, regulatory measures may struggle to keep pace with the rapid evolution of these deceptive tactics.
Presently, the most effective defense strategy is awareness. This is the driving force behind initiatives like “Protecting Older Adults from AI Scams,” a public education program aimed at helping families identify the signs of AI-enabled fraud and take preventive measures before falling victim. The primary objective is to equip older adults and their families with practical tools to navigate real-life situations.
Individuals need simple yet reliable habits to rely on during high-pressure moments. Based on our experience, a few key actions consistently reduce the risk:
- Take a pause when faced with urgent requests.
- Verify the information through a trusted channel separate from the initial communication.
- Avoid sending money under pressure.
- Establish family verification protocols, such as a shared code word.
- Avoid making sensitive decisions alone during emotionally charged moments.
While these habits may seem basic, they are crucial in introducing friction that can disrupt the scam.
Gary Schildhorn’s experience serves as a prime example. His quick thinking and decision to verify the information through a second phone call saved him from becoming a victim. This underscores the importance of awareness, which is effective when it resonates with the individual receiving the information.
A Shift in Security Mindset
For years, cybersecurity efforts focused on safeguarding systems and organizations. While this remains vital, the current landscape necessitates protecting individuals in their personal lives from targeted attacks.
Some of the most detrimental fraud schemes now directly target individuals, with older adults bearing the brunt of this shift in tactics. As AI tools become more accessible and affordable, these attacks are likely to proliferate. Behavioral scientist BJ Fogg from Stanford University has demonstrated that people are more inclined to act when presented with a message that combines motivation, ability, and promptness. In scams, this translates to a familiar voice, a straightforward request, and a sense of urgency converging simultaneously.
Actions for Families to Take Now
The initial step is to engage in open discussions about these scams. Families should proactively address how these fraudulent activities operate before encountering a crisis. Parents and grandparents must understand that a familiar voice on the phone no longer guarantees the caller’s identity. Adult children should promote simple verification practices and facilitate the verification of suspicious requests without causing embarrassment.
The focus of these conversations should be on preparedness and support. AI-driven fraud is becoming increasingly prevalent in everyday life, and families who acknowledge this reality early on will be better equipped to combat it.
Brian Long serves as the CEO and Co-Founder of Adaptive Security, a company dedicated to developing software solutions that safeguard organizations against emerging cyber threats like deepfakes, GenAI phishing, and smishing. Adaptive Security has witnessed rapid growth and collaborates with prominent entities such as regional and national banks, leading tech firms, and critical healthcare systems.
For more information, you can connect with Brian online at LinkedIn and visit the company’s official website at Adaptive Security.

